Anejaculation is the inability to ejaculate at all. Patients with this condition can produce sperm normally, but they cannot expel the semen even when they have proper stimulation. Only 0.2% of the population experience anejaculation, making it a relatively uncommon condition (Kinsey 1948). Like DE, anejaculation can be caused by a mix of physical and psychological factors. Luckily, anejaculation often occurs with normal orgasmic sensation, so patients are able to enjoy a full orgasm they just don’t have the ejaculate to show for it. That can be a strange and incongruous concept since we mostly associate an orgasm with cum, but even though the two are related, they don’t have to occur together. While some patients are distressed by anejaculation, others are not. However, it’s particularly problematic for those individuals who are trying to impregnate their partners.
When ejaculation causes pain, it can severely affect a person’s life. Agonizing pain is the absolute opposite of the intense pleasure you’re supposed to feel during ejaculation. Those who experience painful ejaculation often become disinterested in sex or masturbation. It can also lead to a concurrence of other sexual function issues including erectile dysfunction, low libido, anxiety and depression.
Painful ejaculation has been estimated to occur in 1% to 10% of men (Ilie 2007). The good news is that painful ejaculation is often a condition that isn’t permanent. This ejaculatory dysfunction can be brought on by a number of causes, including obstruction of the ejaculatory ducts, tightness in the pelvic floor muscles or connective tissues, infection, trauma or inflammation of the urinary or genital organs and some neurological conditions. Often, one or more of these issues occur at the same time. To treat this ejaculatory disfunction, we often administer antibiotics, pain medications and anti-inflammatory drugs or we suggest physical therapy. In some cases, surgery becomes necessary.
The pain felt from painful ejaculation can occur in different places on your body. Many patients say that they feel pain in their testicles, near their rectum, in the lower abdomen, in the groin area and in their penis. This pain can also be accompanied by changes in bowel movements or urination. Occasionally, but not always, patients will see blood in their semen when painful ejaculation occurs. The important thing to remember is that pain during ejaculation is never normal and it should always be followed up with a visit to your doctor.
It can be difficult to talk about ejaculatory issues, but as a urologist and sexual health professional, I can assure you – we’ve heard it all before. Ejaculatory disfunctions are really quite common and there are many treatments that can help. If you experience any changes in the timing of your ejaculations or volume of your semen, or you experience pain when you orgasm, it’s wise to be open and honest with your healthcare practitioner. We’re here to help!
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Much like the Loch Ness Monster or Bigfoot, the female orgasm can seem elusive. Despite all advancements in sexual health, the female orgasm remains for many a complete mystery. What do we have to do, get Scooby and the gang in on the job? Although, now that I think about it, I bet that Fred knows his way around 😏. Why is the female orgasm, or the “Big O '' shrouded in such mystery? Who can we call? Ghostbusters? Not quite. The answer is Popstar. While we may not know anything about ghosts, we sure as hell know a lot about busting. Popstar has the tips to make your woman say “oh” and help you reach the “big O”.
I know what you’re thinking? How is it 2024 and we still have questions about the female orgasm. Dr. Ruth is 95 years old for crying out loud. By now, every man should know how to satisfy their female partner. Well, culturally, the scientific community tasked with understanding sex is largely male-dominated and focused. The patriarchy strikes again.
Before we understand the how, we must understand the why. The reason for the male orgasm is pretty obvious. The male orgasm is directly tied to ejaculation for procreation. The male orgasm is like blowing on a dandelion, just spreading seeds. The only difference being you don’t get to make a wish. The male orgasm has a blatant evolutionary purpose.
The elusive female orgasm isn’t quite as obvious. One theory is that the female orgasm was primarily to induce ovulation. Somewhere along the line, evolution introduced spontaneous ovulation, where a woman’s ova are released without copulation. Translation: her eggs are released without knocking boots. With spontaneous ovulation, the female orgasm is free to make its secondary role its primary: pleasure.
With the female orgasm no longer having any evolutionary benefit, pleasure becomes the main focus, and can help bond women with their partners (assuming it is a duet and not a solo performance). Orgasmic pleasure, is well, for lack of a better word, orgasmic. The pursuit of pleasure can encourage women to have more sex, which one could argue circles back to its original evolutionary purpose. That being said, we are fully onboard for the pleasure over procreation impulse.
If you have been following our blog you know that we love to debunk a myth. We are practically the mythbusters of busting a nut. So what are some commonplace fables of the female orgasm. Probably the most common misconception is that orgasm through penetrative sex is common. *Game show buzzer incorrect sound*. Women are lucky in the sense that they have more than one way they can achieve orgasm: vaginally, through clitoral stimulation, or even through the cervix. If you or your partner are very talented, it can be a blend of all three. Sort of like a yummy sex smoothie!
In the past it was believed that women who could not achieve vaginal orgasm were “sexually dysfunctional” or “damaged”. Now we know that plenty of women do not orgasm from penetration and that orgasm can occur without penetration at all.
Another common myth is that orgasms don’t change. A lot of people think that a female orgasm is a sure fire thing. Well, honey, even Samanth Jones “lost” her orgasm. There are numerous factors that can affect a woman’s orgasm. A woman’s ability to achieve orgasm can change during their menstrual cycle. They can be more intense or less pleasurable, depending on the partner. Stress and certain medications can make it a bit more difficult for orgasms to occur. Naturally changes in the body such as menopause can also significantly impact pleasure and orgasmic potential.
Our next myth is that the inability to orgasm is a psychological problem. I’m almost certain a man made this one up. I think the connotation is the problem here. While there could be a psychological block stopping you from reaching a climax, there is nothing wrong with you psychologically. There’s a difference. There are numerous other factors that affect a woman's ability to achieve an orgasm. It could be a physical or emotional block, or a protective response to prior sexual trauma.
Just like there are health benefits to the big O, there are certain health issues that could hinder you from being able to climax. High blood pressure and diabetes can negatively impact blood flow to the genitals which can make orgasm challenging. There are numerous anti-depressants that are notorious for affecting a woman’s ability to climax. Hormone changes that can occur from certain birth controls, menopause, and even pregnancy can affect a woman’s libido, in turn, affecting the production of lubrication and the ability to climax. Certain surgical procedures can also mess with orgasm. Surgeries like hysterectomy, labiaplasty, and midurethral slings placed for incontinence can interfere with or sometimes render a woman incapable of achieving orgasm.
Anorgasmia, a condition where a person is physically unable to have an orgasm is not uncommon. It is estimated that 10-15% of women experience anorgasmia. Men can suffer from anorgasmia as well. To learn more about anorgasmia, check out our blog post here.
Moving onto our next myth: good sex equals an orgasm. I know I didn’t pay much attention in algebra, but I definitely must’ve zoned out during this lesson. This is false of course. First of all, what someone deems as “good sex” varies from person to person. Clitoral stimulation might be one woman’s must-have, another may need vaginal penetration, while another may prefer an emotional connection. Good sex can’t be defined universally.
Popstar Pills ReviewAnother common misconception regarding the female orgasm is that most women can have multiple orgasms. As we now know, the refractory time for women is shorter, so one would think that achieving multiple orgasms would be easier. That being said, it is false that this occurs in the majority of women. Research shows that only about 15% of women are multi-orgasmic. So if you aren’t going back for seconds, don’t fret, most women aren’t able to either.
The final fable on our list of myths is that nothing can be done to improve your orgasm. This is unequivocally false. There is plenty a woman can do to improve their sexual experience. Increasing physical exercise has been known to support better overall sexual health. You know what they say, if you look good you feel good. The same can be said when it comes to orgasms. Women with a positive self body image tend to have better sexual experiences. Exercise is just one way a person can feel better about their looks.
Just like many aspects of a relationship, communication plays a huge role in the sexual experience. Women who receive daily affection from and/or have intimate communication with a partner tend to have better sexual function. It is important to communicate your sexual needs to your partner as well. How will your partner know what really gets you off if you don’t tell them? Unless your partner is clairvoyant like Teresa Caputo, how are they to know!?
The best way to dispel the fables of the female orgasm and put an end to the myths surrounding the big O, is through masturbation! The more you explore and the more you know your body, the closer you’ll be to your biggest climax yet! We hope we helped make the female orgasm feel less elusive, mysterious, and daunting! Consider this myth busted!
With the start of October, and Halloween just around the corner, our minds shift almost willingly to celebrating spooky season. We snuggle up with popcorn to watch our favorite horror movies and scare ourselves silly for the temporary adrenaline rush that a haunted house provides. But what if we told you there was something even scarier to a man? Something far more horrifying than ghosts, ghouls, and goblins combined. It’s called: Penile Shrinkage! 😬
Ok so it may not be the boogeyman, but I’m sure it's almost every man’s worst nightmare to have their penis shrink right before their eyes. That being said, as men, we have all experienced temporary penile shrinkage. We’ve all taken a cold shower and had our gourd looking more like a gherkin when we stepped out to dry off. Most penile shrinkage is temporary: a cold shower, a dip in the pool, or a blustery breeze can turn our prick from a plantain to a pickle. It is normal. But there is also a type of penile shrinkage that is permanent 😱. But what are the causes of permanent penile shrinkage and what can be done about it? Popstar is back with the tips (and so much more than just the tip) on penile shrinkage.
With how penis-obsessed men are, you would think there would be a ton of research on penile atrophy, but alas, there isn’t. Maybe men don’t even want to think about it, even in the name of science! What we do know is that there are a few external causes that contribute to penile atrophy.
One of which is prostate surgery. Studies show that a prostatectomy can lead to shrinkage and is most noticeable 4 to 8 months post-surgery. Both girth and length can decrease by up to 20%. Something far scarier than Halloween and Friday the 13th combined.
There are also certain diseases that can contribute to shrinkage. Peyronie’s Disease can be attributed to penile atrophy and shortening. Peyronie’s is a condition where fibrous scar tissue develops on the penis which can lead to curved, painful erections, and of course, shrinkage.
Weight gain is also said to cause penile shrinkage, but it could just be an optical illusion. One could argue that the penis doesn’t get any smaller, just less of it is exposed. Fall is a difficult time to struggle with your weight. From pumpkin spice-flavored everything, to the endless amounts of Halloween candy, it can be hard to not indulge. If you think that you may be experiencing penile shrinkage due to your weight, maybe say no to that extra Twix for the sake of your dick.
Radiation and hormonal suppression are directly linked to penile atrophy as well. Hormonal suppression is a treatment used to stop the production of androgens, a hormone that can fuel prostate cancer cell growth. A significant decrease in penile length was reported in men who were treated with both radiation and suppression to combat prostate cancer. However, further studies need to take place in order to determine if radiation and hormone suppression alone can cause shrinkage, as the data collected was from men who were treated with both.
Now that we know the potential causes of penile atrophy, what can be done about it? The treatment can be tricky as the most effective options are the most invasive, and costly. Cosmetic implants have been used to try to increase the length and girth of the penis, but these surgeries are not without risk. There is also the potential for a much less invasive option, penile filler. The same filler used to plump your face and lips can be used in your penis to increase size, but this mostly affects girth. To learn more about penile filler, check out our article here.
Leading a healthy lifestyle can help to prevent penile atrophy. As aforementioned, weight gain can lead to potential shrinkage. Monitoring diet, regular exercise, and controlling the consumption of alcohol can help with weight making sure your gourd has room to grow.
Having regular checkups and keeping in contact with a healthcare provider is always recommended and can help monitor the signs of penile shrinkage. After all, keeping open communication with your doctor can ensure that the only thing long and hard about this autumn is you.
With Valentine's Day right around the corner, you may be getting ready to give your partner their annual blowjob. Or, if you're someone who enjoys frequent fellatio, it is always great to top off your technique. That's right; Popstar is back with tips (and not just the tip) on oral sex and different ways to give better oral to please your penis having partners.
Every show needs an opening act! To get your partner from half mast to full, why not start with an OPTBJ (over-the-pants blow job.) Get them in the mood by kissing and sucking their penis through their underwear until they are fully aroused. Once your partner is erect and ready, unwrap them like a piece of V-Day candy.